During the course of our lives, we meet a lot of people. We meet a lot of kind people, some unkind, but at one point or another we always meet the special someone – a person who deserves (or doesn’t, but that’s a whole other topic) a most special place in our hearts.
Let the special one know they are the one you love the most. Reach out to them with a cute, crazy, witty love card and add a bunch of fresh flowers perhaps. As the Kaiser Chiefs sing: „Let it never be said the romance is dead“. But if you’re not really a poet, or not even remotely good with words, don’t worry. That’s where we come in.
Pieces of advice on what to write on a Love Card
First, a few advise if you’re brave enough for wanting to write your own love card or letter. Go somewhere private, make sure nothing distracts you, grab a pen and paper (no computer printing, please), and you will now be able to express yourself without being afraid someone might interrupt you.
This will help set the mood. You can even light up some candles or listen to some music which reminds you of that person.
Think about the person you love for a while. Remember the reasons you feel in love with them, consider what you love the most about them: perhaps their character, sense of humour, or some other attributes.
Be careful not to focus too much on physical characteristics, as this can make you seem shallow. Of course, you can include a few, but do try to balance it out with the other traits this person possesses. Don’t worry, it does not have to sound like Hemingway wrote it.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, and try to avoid mimicking someone else’s voice. It will feel much warmer and more honest if you truly, really write from the heart. I’m sure your significant other will appreciate the effort.
You can never go wrong with keeping it simple. For example: start by writing about how you two first met, or the moment you fell in love with them. This will bring back nice memories and make them smile.
Continue by saying how much this person means to you, how much you love being with them. Also, mention certain little details you love about them. In the end, tell them about how excited you are about your future together.
Of course, don’t expect you’ll write it perfectly from the get-go. You can start by writing down your thoughts as a first draft kind of thing, and then organize and polish them later. Make sure you pay attention to the small details, personal things – this makes people feel special and appreciated.
Nothing says ‘I love you’ more than remembering the most commonplace, everyday moment the two of you shared.
Also, you can include quotes, especially from authors or singers you know your significant other adores. And don’t worry about the length – write what you want to share, whether it’s a five-page letter or a really short but cute message on a sticky note. Try to be open, even if it makes you feel vulnerable.
Be honest. Say how much you appreciate your partner, how much your life has changed with them and what they mean to you. We all get a bit nervous when we have to share our most intimate feelings, but this is what this is all about, right?
Opening up to someone you love and trust can only bring good things into your relationship.
If you are an artistic soul, add a sweet drawing to your letter. How about the two of you as cartoon characters? However, don’t worry about this part too much. It’s more about what you say, rather than the format.
When you get your message done, don’t get cold feet and not deliver it. If you’re shy, you can always leave it somewhere for your partner/crush to find it when you’re not around. For example, slip it in their drawer.
If, for some reason, you don’t want to write the letter in your own words, here are some beautiful quotes that you can use. If you do pick out one of these, keep in mind they should accurately express how you feel, as well as closely resemble your relationship.
Beautiful Love Quotes
„All, everything that I Understand, I only understand because I love.” Leo Tolstoy
„The heart wants what it wants. There’s no logic to these things. You meet someone and you fall in love and that’s that.” Woddy Allen.
„I would rather spend one lifetime with you, than face all the ages of this world alone.” Lord of the Rings
„I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close.“ Pablo Neruda
„Better to have lost and loved than never to have loved at all.” Ernest Hemingway
„Where there is love there is life.” Mahatma Gandhi
„Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold.“ Zelda Fitzgerald
„We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness – and call it love – true love.” Robert Fulghum
„Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope.” Maya Angelou
„If I had a flower for every time I thought of you… I could walk through my garden forever.” Alfred Tennyson
„When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” Paulo Coelho
„Love is the flower you’ve got to let grow.” John Lennon
„Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves.” The Bible
And finally, here’s one to motivate you. Plato said that „at the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.”
And it’s true.